Stress has a way of uncovering your faults, stripping you of your character costumes, and revealing who is left.
When taken into your body (and by that I mean all of you), stress is received as a signal to your system(s) to fly, flight, or freeze.
Another way of screening stress is by calling it your way of coming down to your basic self, your raw self, and who you are.
You’re surely more than any one decision, but you are definitely who you are when you’re raw. Angry, pissed, disappointed. How you interpret stress, how you take that stressful event in and live from it, will look differently from the next person. But you are in that response.
Take a look at your stresses. Take a look at your responses. Notice who you were in them. Notice who you still are.
Is that the person you want to be when the next stress comes? Is who you are consistent with who you thought you were?
Accept who you see. Love that person. And decide if you want to change.